Did you ever give a gift to someone and expect to get it back? Of course not. That would be merely a loan. When you give a birthday or Christmas gift you give it for keeps.
Did you ever think about John 3:16 in this way? Does it read "God so loved the world, that he loaned his only begotten Son"? No. "God so loved the world, that he gave his only begotten Son." When He gave that gift did it mean anything to Him? It was a permanent gift because He gave Him. Every time we read that verse we should see something new in it. I used to wonder about the angels singing over and over again, "Holy, holy, holy, Lord God Almighty." Don't they ever get tired of singing the same words over and over again? They never weary of it because they sing it each time as a result of a new revelation. In the earth made new we too will study God's gift throughout eternity, and each new revelation will call forth a new meaning to the song.
Sin caused a separation between Father and Son that we cannot fully realize. Sin always causes separation and leaves sorrow and suffering. But what a separation it must have been when God made "him to be sin for us, who knew no sin"! We grasp so little of this tremendous event, and will never fully realize it, even to eternity.
But as we meditate on it we can obtain further glimpses of the meaning of the cross. What must have been the anguish of the moment when Jesus hung on the cross as a sinner, and died as a sinner, the gift of God to humanity, never to be taken back from us! Such a gift had never been given before. And it was indeed a gift, not merely a loan.
What must it have meant when God the Father must take the life of His own Son! "What?" you say. "Didn't the Romans slay Him? or the Jews?" Yes, both intended to do it, but they didn't. He died not from the wounds, since normally that would have required three or four days and for this reason they broke the legs of those crucified when they were taken down from the cross. The soldiers were surprised to find Jesus dead already. Now what evidence do we have that God the Father must do it? First of all we have the analogy of Abraham and Isaac. Jesus Himself said, "Your father Abraham rejoiced to see my day: and he saw it, and was glad" (John 8:56). Here He must have reference to the experience of Abraham offering up Isaac. For just after quoting this verse Ellen G. White says, "It was to impress Abraham's mind with the reality of the gospel, as well as to test his faith, that God commanded him to slay his son." And in the previous paragraph she says, "Through type and promise, God 'preached before the gospel unto Abraham.' "—Patriarchs and Prophets, p. 154.
We are told further that "Isaac was a figure of the Son of God, who was offered a sacrifice for the sins of the world. God would impress upon Abraham the gospel of salvation to man. . . . He was made to understand in his own experience how unutterable was the self-denial of the infinite God in giving His own Son to die to rescue man from utter ruin."—Testimonies, vol. 3, p. 369. (Italics supplied.) If Isaac was a "figure of the Son of God" and Abraham was to understand "in his own experience" the self-denial of God, then Abraham must have been a figure of God the Father. Abraham was not asked to turn Isaac over to someone else to slay him. He was to slay his son himself and thus present the type of the sacrifice of Christ and the self-denial of God. Patriarchs and Prophets, page 154, further says, "The angels who witnessed the humiliation and soul-anguish of the Son of God were not permitted to interpose, as in the case of Isaac." Yes, as the prophet said, "It pleased the Lord to bruise him" (Isa. 53:10).
Second, we have the analogy of the final death of the sinner. The first death is only a sleep, the result of sin. But "the wages of sin is death" (Rom. 6:23). After quoting this verse and Deuteronomy 30:15 Ellen G. White says: "The death referred to in these scriptures is not that pronounced upon Adam, for all mankind suffer the penalty of his transgression. It is the 'second death' that is placed in contrast with everlasting life."—The Great Controversy, p. 544.
"He hath made him to be sin for us, who knew so sin; that we might be made the righteousness of God in him" (2 Cor. 5:21). "Christ felt the anguish which the sinner will feel when mercy shall no longer plead for the guilty race. It was the sense of sin, bringing the Father's wrath upon Him as man's substitute, that made the cup He drank so bitter, and broke the heart of the Son of God."—The Desire of Ages, p. 753.
Since He died for us, then it must have been the experience of the second death that He passed through, for we all, saint and sinner, except the few who will be translated, must die the first death. "Our God is a consuming fire" (Heb. 12:29). The wicked are slain by His presence (2 Thess. 1:7-9). "And fire came down from God out of heaven, and devoured them" (Rev. 20:9) at the end of the thousand years. It is the consuming presence of God in His wrath against sin that slays the wicked and brings the anguish of soul so great that physical pain is hardly felt. It was this experience that Jesus passed through for us. Jesus took the sinner's place and thus incurred the wrath of God against Himself as our sin bearer.
We can only get a little understanding of the scene as we read the story of Abraham and Isaac. Abraham was asked to take his son Isaac and go to Mount Moriah, the future site of the Temple, and offer him. What a struggle Abraham must have had! He didn't even tell Sarah, his wife. Perhaps he just left a note that he and Isaac had gone to sacrifice. For three days and nights he bore this burden alone. At last as they approached the mount he had to inform Isaac. Isaac could have run away, for he was only about twenty years old and his father was more than one hundred. But he understood and trusted his father. He, too, was willing. At last the hour had come. Isaac was bound. And now, as any father would, Abraham hesitated: "How can I slay my beloved son?" However, obedience to God was greater than love for his son. Then, too, Isaac encouraged him as Abraham hesitated and turned away (Patriarchs and Prophets, p. 152). At last, with complete trust in God he raises the knife to plunge it into his son. But God spared him the awful act. He had now demonstrated his faith and given an example to the world of what God the Father must do.
But God the Father could not be spared the ordeal. Jesus was not only the Son but also the Lamb. See Him on the cross. As a sinner the Father must take His life. He was to die as a substitute for sinners, to die as a sinner and not as a saint. "Our God is a consuming fire" (Heb. 12:29, see Isa. 33: 14). Sense the anguish of the Father. Like Abraham, He turns away and darkness falls upon the earth from noon until three o'clock. "In that thick darkness God's presence was hidden. He makes darkness His pavilion, and conceals His glory from human eyes. . . . Had His glory flashed forth from the cloud, every human beholder would have been destroyed. And in that dreadful hour Christ was not to be comforted with the Father's presence. He trod the wine press alone, and of the people there was none with Him."—The Desire of Ages, pp. 753, 754. These were the three hours of supreme conflict.
God loved His Son and He loved us. Which should it be? The Son cries out, "My God, my God, why hast thou forsaken me?" (Mark 15:34). The task must be done. "I will that they . . . be with me" (John 17:24). Their love for us wins. The Father returns and the Son is slain. Sin and God cannot exist together. For that reason the veil was drawn between us and God when Adam sinned, lest we die. Now the veil in the Temple was rent from top to bottom, "that is to say, his flesh" (Heb. 10:20). The Father had slain His own Son because "he hath made him to be sin for us, who knew no sin" (2 Cor. 5:21). He gave Him "to humanity by a tie that is never to be broken, . . . forever to retain His human nature."—Ibid., p. 25.
This is beautifully illustrated in the Old Testament in Exodus 21:2-6. Six years a man must serve if he had sold himself into slavery. On the seventh year he might go free. But if while in servitude his master had given him a wife and they had children, he must leave them behind. If his love for wife and children was greater than his love for freedom, he might stay with them. If so, he must step up to the doorpost and have his master pierce his ear with an awl. This wound would be a sign of his love for his wife and children. This was prophesied by Isaiah of Christ: "The Lord God hath opened mine ear, and I was not rebellious" (Isa. 50:5). Also the psalmist says of the Messiah: "Mine ears hast thou opened: burnt offering and sin offering hast thou not required" (Ps. 40:6). This is the same Hebrew word translated "digged, opened" in all three references. He came alone and served. He could have left alone. He loved His bride and chose to link Himself eternally with her. In His prayers to His Father, He prayed, "Father, I will that they also, whom thou hast given me, be with me where I am" (John 17:24). He stepped up to the tree. Not His ears, but His hands, side, and feet were pierced.
A woman once said to a Jewish lad in Cairo, "Are you expecting your Messiah to come?"
"Yes," he replied, "we believe He will come within six years."
"Will He have wounds in His hands?" she asked. And as he looked at her inquiringly, she continued, "Your prophet Zechariah said of Messiah that when He comes, they shall say unto Him, 'What are these wounds in thine hands?' Then He shall answer, 'Those with which I was wounded in the house of my friends' (Zech. 13:6). Are you expecting to see your Messiah with wounds in His hands?"
The lad left, but appeared the following morning looking greatly distressed. He said, "I could not sleep last night. All night I was asking myself, 'If He has wounds in His hands, how did He get them? I have come to ask you if you can tell me more."
You can imagine her joy in telling one who was so eager to hear the wondrous story of the cross where He was wounded for our transgressions.
Yes, He could have taken the easy way and have left us to our ruin. But through the prophet Jeremiah (chap. 3:14), He says, "I am married unto you." Unfaithfulness to God is called spiritual adultery. In Romans 7:4 Paul says we are married to Christ. Carrying this illustration further, Paul quotes Genesis 2:24 in Ephesians 5: 31, 32, which says, "For this cause shall a man leave his father and mother, and shall be joined unto his wife, and they two shall be one flesh." Then by analogy Paul presents his message to thrill our hearts: "This is a great mystery: but I speak concerning Christ and the church." As the groom prepares a home, so He is preparing a city and mansions (John 14:1-3). In Revelation 19:7-9 we are told of the wedding ceremony as He comes with the city down to this earth (see also Revelation 21:1, 2). What a glorious wedding ceremony awaits God's beloved! How marvelous Paul's application of the love of Jesus for His bride!
In the wedding analogy, which tie is closer, the son to the father or the son to his wife? The son to the wife, of course. Did not God say he should leave his father and mother and cleave to his wife? "This is a great mystery: but I speak concerning Christ and the church." This does not mean Jesus loves the Father less, but His love for us impels Him to come and be with us. "The earth hath he given to the children of men." He will take up His abode with us in the earth made new. His name truly is "Emmanuel"—God with us.
With this an alteration must take place in the universe. When the New Jerusalem comes down, a voice is heard: "Behold, the tabernacle of God is with men, and he will dwell with them, and they shall be his people, and God himself shall be with them, and be their God" (Rev. 21:3). God now dwells in the heavens (Isa. 66:1), but when the city comes down a great change takes place. In Revelation 22:3 we are told that "the throne of God and of the Lamb shall be in it." It is almost beyond human imagination. Yes, Christ was given to man forever, and we are "heirs of God, and joint-heirs with Christ." What a glorious privilege awaits the faithful. "Higher than the highest human thought can reach is God's ideal for His children."—Messages to Young People, p. 40.
For this Christ prayed: "I in them, and thou in me, that they may be made perfect in one. . . . Father, I will that they also, whom thou hast given me, be with me where I am" (John 17:23, 24). "Unworthy, unworthy," we cry out. But throughout the ages as eternity rolls on there will be increasing joy and more to follow, as we enjoy the greatest Gift ever given. No wonder Paul wrote to the Ephesian brethren: "And to know the love of Christ, which passeth knowledge, that ye might be filled with all the fulness of God" (Eph. 3:19).