The authors of this volume, both ordained ministers, speak to the growing awareness that child sexual abuse does happen in the Christian community. They highlight statistics stating that one out of every three girls and one out of every 11 boys will be victims of sexual violence before age 18. Unfortunately, the church's traditional silence on the topic reinforces the illusion that this sort of thing doesn't happen in Christian families. But the authors point out that it does occur, and our denial serves to perpetuate repeated victimization.
Preventing Child Sexual Abuse provides a 13-week step-by-step curriculum for children ages 9-12, to be used in churches as part of a religious education program. The authors believe that the instruction children receive regarding sexual abuse should include a theological and biblical foundation. "Our tradition and Scripture clearly mandate the necessity of care for those members of our society who are most vulnerable. Jesus' words remind us that as Christians we must publicly stand in solidarity with victims and help in the healing process. . . . The church is God's community of people who care for others."
This course teaches children that God loves each of them, and that He is a comforter to those that suffer. It emphasizes that all people are created in God's image and that children are special to Him. It also addresses misinterpretations of Scripture commonly used to excuse violence.
I found the curriculum well outlined and clearly presented. The authors give useful information about training leaders, preparing the church for a sexual abuse prevention curriculum, and meeting with parents, and they include a sample letter to parents. The appendixes provide facts about such things as the indicators of abuse, how to help a child victim, and how to report abuse. The book also dis cusses the ethical mandate requiring ministers to report sexual abuse.
Each session guide includes reproducible handouts and activities particularly geared for ages 9-12. The authors present the material candidly but sensitively and do an excellent job of incorporating biblical principles. Furthermore, the authors are aware of the dilemmas, hesitations, confusion, and ambivalence that face clergy regarding this topic. They address the fears and concerns of clergy regarding identifying and dealing with sexual abuse in the church. Because of its clarity, sensitivity, simplicity, and applicability to the church setting, this is one of the best books I have read on the subject.
