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Forty tips from 40 years of ministry

Practical pointers from an experienced minister.

Lawrence H. Balleine is a retired clergy (Congregational/United Church of Christ)

  1. Have an active prayer life.
  2. Cherish and spend time with your family.
  3. Honor tradition, but do not worship it. After serving a congregation for a while, you may tweak or adapt traditions.
  4. A church’s ministry is like an iceberg: 90 percent of it goes on beneath the scenes. But the unseen part is what supports the other 10 percent.
  5. Be willing to do any task that needs to be done. Just because you may hold a theological degree does not mean you cannot join a group in picking up the litter from a nearby highway.
  6. Be as careful how you say some­thing as in what you say.
  7. God gave us two ears and one mouth for a reason: spend twice as much time listening as speaking.
  8. We are not called to be successful but to be faithful.
  9. The local church is not yours. It is Christ’s, and you and everyone else are privileged to serve it.
  10. Your absence is often noticed more than your presence.
  11. Only make promises you can keep. If you say to a hospitalized person: “I’ll see you tomorrow,” you need to appear tomorrow.
  12. It is always better to be kind than to insist that you are right.
  13. The customer (the person in the pew) is not always right. But, usu­ally, instead of pointing out their faults, lead people in such a way that they discover for themselves the error of their ways. Gentleness and discretion go a long way.
  14. Ministry is more about planting seeds than about reaping harvests.
  15. When particular thoughts on themes come to mind for upcoming sermons, such as hope, forgiveness, and so forth, place them in folders dedicated to these themes.
  16. Prepare the best you can and leave the rest to God. Never underesti­mate the power of the Holy Spirit.
  17. There will always be some people whom you can never satisfy.
  18. Practice what you preach as best you can.
  19. Read not only the Bible and theol­ogy but other topics as well.
  20. Take time for personal rest.
  21. Keep confidences.
  22. You are never as bad, or as good, as some say you are.
  23. Honesty is an indispensible quality.
  24. Establish boundaries, including time limits.
  25. Compliment others when they merit it.
  26. Do not be afraid to admit that there are often “better” Christians than you are, and that some are sitting in your pews. It keeps you humble, another essential quality for a minister.
  27. Respect where each person is along his or her faith journey.
  28. Just being there in times of crisis is more important than saying the right things.
  29. Doing the compassionate thing is almost always more important than doing the sensible thing.
  30. Exemplify forgiveness.
  31. Spend quality time with colleagues.
  32. Folks generally respond more to love than to knowledge.
  33. Do not expect everyone to agree with you.
  34. Always speak with kindness to everyone.
  35. It has been said, “In essentials unity, in nonessentials liberty; in all things love.”
  36. Know that God works in each per­son in His own way.
  37. Participate in community events.
  38. Cultivate good, healthy friendships whenever and wherever you are able.
  39. God, not the congregation, is your boss. But God may be speaking through your congregation.
  40. Offer grace, express gratitude, and be generous.

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Lawrence H. Balleine is a retired clergy (Congregational/United Church of Christ)

February 2015

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