Karen Holford

Karen Holford, MA, MSc, is a systemic psychotherapist and the Family Ministries director for the Trans-European Division, St. Albans, Hertfordshire, England.

Articles by Karen Holford

Creating emotional balance in an unbalanced world

January 2017

I have paddled my toes in the great sea of burnout—probably even waded in up to my chest. I’m not sure how deep. When life feels completely overwhelming, you can take one small step and suddenly discover that there is no ground under your…

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Worshiping . . . with children?

April 2016

Jesus made it clear that children were very special to Him. He remembered what it felt like to be a child, be vulnerable, be filled with wonder, run freely, and live a simple and uncomplicated life. So He…

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A delightful day

April 2015

It was Friday afternoon in Jerusalem, just before Sabbath. The plaza by the Western Wall was filling with people, laughter, and music. A tune began to emerge, a song of Sabbath celebration. A dozen girls held hands and danced together, circling,…

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Spiritual Intimacy: The Challenge and Delight

January 2014

Three months into our marriage, Bernie and I were having worship together. We were quietly reading the same passage of Scripture, preparing to share our insights and ideas. I immersed myself in the verses, trying to experience what it would…

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How your marriage helps you grow more like God

July 2012

Laura just finished serving dessert when her husband, Jon, a retired pastor and church administrator, turned to us and said, “I have something to say to you that comes deep from my heart. As a married person and…

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How to stay at home and still earn money!

December 1991

Wouldn't it be wonderful to have a job that fits around your children's needs, your husband's schedule, and your own talents? A job that helps toward a camping trip, flute lessons, a decent outfit, presents for the family. A job that brings…

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When your piece doesn't seem to fit

October 1990

The jigsaw puzzle lay half-finished on the dining room table. Piles of pieces surrounded the growing picture. The blue ones were in a pile waiting for someone to undertake the laborious task of constructing the sky.…

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Ministering to families with handicapped children

July 1991

Kate and Mark had just been through the incredible experience of the birth of their first child. It had been a long and painful labor. Kate had opted to go without any pain relief, and by the time she delivered she was at the end of her emotional…

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"Suffer the little children"

July 1992

Jesus has just entered Jerusalem on a wave of triumph and rejoicing. Little children and their parents run down the roads, carpeting them with olive branches. Praises rend the air! As the procession nears the Temple,…

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Banners in the church

July 1994

We will rejoice in thy salvation, and in the name of our God we will set up our banners" (Ps. 20:5).

Banners were used in Bible times as a standard or ensign to declare an army's allegiance. They were symbols…

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Simply creative: Ways to involve children in your worship services

May 2009

It is children’s Sabbath in an average church. But it hasn’t been an average kind of service. The children illustrated the words of the scripture reading with sign language. Every child had written praises to God, prayer requests, and Thank-You…

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Creative Celebrations: Involving children in your special services

November 2009

Editor’s note: In the May 2009 issue, Karen Holford addressed involving children in the divine worship service. This month, she expands the discussion to include involving children in other church events.

What would happen…

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