Cathy McBride

Cathy McBride, who recently completed a Master of Social Work degree, writes from Quincy, Florida.

Articles by Cathy McBride

When the pastor's wife rebels

October 1985

Entering the empty house, she flings her worn Bible onto the unmade bed. With arms outstretched to God, but tense with rage, she cries out, "I'm sick of it all, God. I'm sick of this insane trap of being a minister's wife. If I force one more…

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Come on, ring those bells!

December 1987

It was December 1982. Christmas trees sparkled in store windows and in residences—from narrow row houses to the brick shoe-box louses that are so familiar to Chicago. Children dreaming of brightly colored toys skipped excitedly through department…

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Should a minister's wife weep?

October 1987

Do you ever weep with your church members when they're hurting?" Connie Reese asks her pastor husband as they prepare for bed.

Her husband's eyes widen with interest.

"Sure I do, honey. Sometimes there's nothing else you can

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Touch: the forgotten sense

November 1988

It was a Monday, and the shopping center was half empty. Seated next to a large fountain in the middle of the mall, I drank in the sounds around meclicking heels, the hum of voices, the steady rush of the spraying fountain.…

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Healing old wounds

May 1989

How important is a father's relationship to his daughter? What effect does the nature of that relationship have on the minister's wife? Can it affect her functioning in life and in the church?

Cindy Blake found that her relationship…

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