Victor M. Parachin
Victor M. Parachin writes from Tulsa, Oklahoma.
Articles by Victor M. Parachin
Lessons in preaching from Harry Emerson Fosdick
June 2019
Preaching is personal counseling on a group basis.”1
Harry Emerson Fosdick (1878–1969), regarded by many as a master preacher whose sermons attracted huge congregations and radio audiences, articulated the above simple…
Living with dying
January 1994
Four years after he lost his 25- year-old son in a mountaineering accident, Nicholas Wolterstorff wrote A Lament for a Son, an eloquent statement on the emotional pain a parent experiences at the death of…
Helping men mourn
September 1995
Sixteen-year-old Naja was killed in an auto accident. When the news reached her father, actor Ben Vereen, he was simply shattered. "It was like someone had reached in and just ripped my heart out," Vereen recalls. Desperate to ease the pain,…
Bereavement ministry: the importance of funeral home visits
May 1999
On January 9,1997, Tony DeMarco's world turned upside down. The Denver Post sportswriter received word that his wife, Maureen, 37, had died in a plane crash.
A chaplain from Detroit's Metropolitan Airport made the call informing DeMarco.…
Dealing with criticism
September 2001
During his presidency, Abraham Lincoln was greatly respected and greatly reviled. Blamed for plunging the nation into civil war, he was die president people loved to hate. Those who opposed his views regarding the…
Times of spiritual darkness: Twelve ways out
November 2003
Every minister experiences times of spiritual dryness. It is a subjective feeling that God is distant, aloof, even absent. During a time of spiritual dryness, prayers feel empty, hymns are sung without energy, sermons…
Funeral services are good for people
November 2004
American advice columnist Ann Landers once counseled a 17-year-old girl to attend her best friend's funeral. She wrote in her column that "a funeral provides proof that the deceased is gone. It helps the bereaved…
The ABCs of everyday spiritual leadership
July/August 2005
Attitude. "People can alter their lives by altering their attitudes," declared William James. This is a thought in which to soak our consciousness because our attitude toward life will always be more important…
Ministering to the mentally ill pastor
March 2005
All his life, the young seminarian had been the model of success: good grades, good relationships, good work ethic. In seminary, he began to experience intense anxiety, depression, pervasive fatigue, insomnia, digestive…