Victor M. Parachin

Victor M. Parachin writes from Tulsa, Oklahoma.

Articles by Victor M. Parachin

Lessons in preaching from Harry Emerson Fosdick

June 2019

Preaching is personal counseling on a group basis.”1

Harry Emerson Fosdick (1878–1969), regarded by many as a master preacher whose sermons attracted huge congregations and radio audiences, articulated the above simple…

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Living with dying

January 1994

Four years after he lost his 25- year-old son in a mountaineering accident, Nicholas Wolterstorff wrote A Lament for a Son, an eloquent statement on the emotional pain a parent experiences at the death of…

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Helping men mourn

September 1995

Sixteen-year-old Naja was killed in an auto accident. When the news reached her father, actor Ben Vereen, he was simply shattered. "It was like someone had reached in and just ripped my heart out," Vereen recalls. Desperate to ease the pain,…

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Bereavement ministry: the importance of funeral home visits

May 1999

On January 9,1997, Tony DeMarco's world turned upside down. The Denver Post sportswriter received word that his wife, Maureen, 37, had died in a plane crash.

A chaplain from Detroit's Metropolitan Airport made the call informing DeMarco.…

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Dealing with criticism

September 2001

During his presidency, Abraham Lincoln was greatly respected and greatly reviled. Blamed for plunging the nation into civil war, he was die president people loved to hate. Those who opposed his views regarding the…

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Times of spiritual darkness: Twelve ways out

November 2003

Every minister experiences times of spiritual dryness. It is a subjective feeling that God is distant, aloof, even absent. During a time of spiritual dryness, prayers feel empty, hymns are sung without energy, sermons…

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Funeral services are good for people

November 2004

American advice columnist Ann Landers once counseled a 17-year-old girl to attend her best friend's funeral. She wrote in her column that "a funeral provides proof that the deceased is gone. It helps the bereaved…

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The ABCs of everyday spiritual leadership

July/August 2005

Attitude. "People can alter their lives by altering their attitudes," declared William James. This is a thought in which to soak our consciousness because our attitude toward life will always be more important…

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Ministering to the mentally ill pastor

March 2005

All his life, the young seminarian had been the model of success: good grades, good relationships, good work ethic. In seminary, he began to experience intense anxiety, depression, pervasive fatigue, insomnia, digestive…

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